The universe works in this way: Whatever you want from it, give it first.
Want respect from others? Start respecting others.
Wish others trusted you more? Start trusting other people.
Want others to communicate with you clearly? Start communicating clearly yourself.
Want opportunities? Be generous with your talents.
Want strong relationships? Be a giver.
Want help? Offer help first.
Universe responds to your actions. Not immediately, but eventually for sure.
I started writing a blog in 2006 and wrote it for 3 years. The idea was simple: I want to document what I learn and share it with others. That led to my first book contract in 2009 and then a few more.
The idea of starting a blog was not to get book contract, but to simply be generous about sharing my lessons.
You can’t offer help just when you need help – that’s barter/negotiation and it rarely works. You have to unconditionally help others, be generous and build trust. And then, when the occassion arises, people will show up and reciprocate.
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